You need to have an FTP client application. Filezilla is free and can be downloaded here. In general, we have two control panels used by our customers. However, the webroot directory is different. For Plesk, upload your index file and the rest to httpdocs. For cPanel, upload to public_html in the remote windows, which is your hosting space.
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